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Searching for the, uh, happy medium

I'm happy.

Only someone with bipolar disorder would say that and then frown, questioning, "Is it normal happy? Or should I be worried?"

Because happy to someone with BiPD can quickly give way to euphoria and sail right on over to delusional.

Just a couple weeks ago, I found myself at the other end of that emotional continuum, bottoming out. I stopped getting up early to go to the gym. I crawled in bed early at night. The knitting and the novel sat untouched on the coffee table. The loud giggly behavior of a 4-year-old scratched against my brain like fork tines scraping a ceramic plate. Talking took effort. Even breathing deep seemed a hassle.

Even though I wanted to sink under the covers and sleep to escape, I took five minutes to email my psychiatrist and ask for help. I'm so glad I did. Within 24 hours, he had called in a new script and suggested I take a fish-oil supplement (studies have shown people in countries where a lot of fish is consumed have lower rates of depression). And my therapist encouraged me to get as much exercise and soak up as much sunlight as I can.

My mantra of the past few days has been very Nike-esque. Just do it. Whatever it is. Even if you don't want to. Do it.

I picked up the knitting. Felt a little better. Finished a good book while sitting in a sunny room. The fog started to lift. Cleaned the house. Felt pretty good. Reorganized the kitchen cabinets. And that's where I questioned...is this what the normal me is supposed to feel like? Or is a hypomania kicking in?

I'm not giddy. That's probably a clue. I'm trying not to question my motivation and behavior, hoping to just enjoy it. While it lasts.

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